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After so many years of this stuff, it gets exhausting. I feel like we're a bunch of toddlers, constantly sticking forks in a live electrical socket, despite getting zapped over and over again.
I am not saying that "character doesn't matter", but it's a hill we choose to die on, again and again.
In a way, it's as simple as this: Dems have set the standard that "ANY" appearance of impropeiety is disqualifying, therefore, all Retrumplicans need to do is lodge an accusation.
It's as if we think we're electing choirboys, or someone I'd want to date my daughter. If that's what we think. FDR, JFK and Bill Clinton would like a word.
Our history is rife with great, exceptional and successful leaders that are flawed human beings in their personal lives.
I remember something that a great leader I worked for in the Navy said:
"What is important is that you do the right thing. We have all of these standards and regulations and expectations of your professional behavior, because blood has been spilled to write them. We didn't just think that your bootlaces need to be tucked in your boots when we put the anchor underfoot. We do that because, years ago, some Sailor got his laces tangled in the anchor chain as it dropped and was pulled through the hawspipe in pieces.
I don't care if you do the right thing because you have some moral code. I don't care if you do the right thing because you're looking for advancement and money. I don't care if you do the right thing to avoid shaming your family...I only care that you do the right thing!
Civil society only survives if the majority of mankind does the right thing, and it doesn't matter if they do so because of their own moral code, or out of selfishness, or the fear of becoming scorned and shamed by civil society.
That's the most disgusting and dangerous thing Donnie Dipshits reign of terror has done. Retrumplicans are done even "pretending" that character matters. It's fucking anything goes for them.
I don't know if there is any truth to the accusations about Platner...and neither do you, but I know a few things for a fact
- Democratic and Independent voters that elect him, WILL HOLD HIM ACCOUNTABLE.
- Retrumplicans and Independent voters that elect Susan Collins will NEVER hold her accountable.
- He won't support armed ICE goons or the National Guard decending on cities and polls in Maine.
- He won't be a rubberstamp for justices like Kavanaugh, Gorsuch and Barrett.
If we want to save civil society, we better start defeating Retrumplicans who don't give a rats-ass about doing the right thing.
If you truly want character to matter again, we must defeat Retrumplicans EVERYWHERE.
The best way to send the message that "character matters" is to send Susan Collins to the ash-heep of history, because pretending that character matters is just as important as character itself.
Retrumplicans are done even pretending, and that infects and impacts EVERY human encounter.
leftstreet
(41,319 posts)30 yrs of Dem candidates that went absolutely nowhere
Then this populist-sounding guy comes along and packs rallies...everyone's hair is on fire
Just_Vote_Dem
(3,729 posts)And I'll never understand why
Ziggy Beans
(74 posts)Last edited Fri Jun 5, 2026, 12:10 PM - Edit history (1)
And their "concern" will only help the fascists
Wicked Blue
(9,062 posts)mzmolly
(52,872 posts)That said, all who run for office are human beings. We're all flawed. Platner is a product of society and one who has seemingly challenged himself to become a better person. I'm quite tired of the notion that Democrats have to be perfect and Republicans can be evil, phony and 'forgiven' for their so called sins.
Platner may be relatable to many who have worked hard on their personal issues, especially men. Further, he might inspire others to do so.
If I lived in Maine, I'd focus on his platform and revisit how he's conducted himself as a Senator when the next election rolls around.
yellow dahlia
(6,654 posts)PatSeg
(53,746 posts)It appears to be both the media and republicans who expect perfection from Democrats, but they look the other way whenever a republican does far, far worse. Now THIS is our primary problem.
I don't live in Maine, so I won't be voting for Platner. Right now I'm not sure what to believe, but if elected, I would hope that he would be a far better senator than Collins.
On the upside, if a lot of these attacks were orchestrated primarily by republican operatives, then they must see Platner as a serious threat.
mzmolly
(52,872 posts)In part, because the flaws he is working through are considered 'attributes' by MAGA and embraced as the stuff real men are made of.
PatSeg
(53,746 posts)I hadn't thought of that.
yellow dahlia
(6,654 posts)You have identified the bottom line.
Some of us may have trepidations, but there is an end goal that matters.
Personally, I would rather my Congress critters were a little less rough around the edges...especially in the Senate. Personally, I like to see people dress the part - respect for the institution, respect for the job, respect for oneself. It is serious work. I think some of us have a little PTSD related to Fetterman. But I have a lot of PTSD related to Manchin and Sinema. Manchin dressed the part, and Sinema was playing her own drama game w/ attire.
Hopefully, Platner can set some goals for himself as a human being and husband, and stick to them. It would be nice not to brace for another scandal.
BUT! Thank you for reminding us of the bottom line.
hay rick
(9,755 posts)The stark policy differences would submerge "character issues" in any country without a oligarchy-complicit media establishment. If character is addressed, Collins complicity with a homicidal, authoritarian regime should outweigh Plattner's personal shortcomings.
MineralMan
(151,794 posts)I don't live in Maine. I'm voting for Flanagan for Senate here in Minnesota, where I"m registered to vote.
AZLD4Candidate
(7,034 posts)nominee, since I believed the primary already happened.
Fil1957
(931 posts)with a married man (now her current husband) while his wife was dying of cancer.
That's much worse than a tattoo and text messages. Not to mention voting with Trump 97% of the time.
I understand and sympathize with Jake Auchincloss's position on Platner, but he's wrong. We can't give up the senate and possibly our democracy, because of a tattoo, no matter how deplorable and offensive that tattoo may be. Auchinloss doesn't seem to remember or know that one of the most effective senators in the history of his state and this country -- Ted Kennedy was responsible for the accidental drowning of a young woman, probably while drunk. Something much worse than a tattoo and text messages.
If we can't support a candidate who doesn't pass a strict purity test -- you can kiss our democracy goodbye!
maxrandb
(17,521 posts)Do you have any idea how many drunkass young Sailors went out and got a tattoo? The vast majority picked a tattoo because they thought it looked "cool". They had no idea what it might symbolize. Proof in point was one young male who got an Asian symbol that didn't quite mean what he thought it might.
Me and my brother were talking to each other
'Bout what makes a man a man
Was it brain or brawn, or the month you were born
We just couldn't understand
Our old man didn't like our appearance
He said that only women wear long hair
So me and my brother borrowed money from Mother
We knew what we had to do
We went downstairs, past the barber and gymnasium
And got our arms tattooed
Welcome to my life, tattoo
I'm a man now, thanks to you
I expect I'll regret you
But the skin graft man won't get you
You'll be there when I die
Tattoo
My dad beat me 'cause mine said "Mother"
But my mother naturally liked it and beat my brother
'Cause his tattoo was of a lady in the nude
And my mother thought that was extremely rude
Welcome to my life, tattoo
We've a long time together, me and you
I expect I'll regret you
But the skin graft man won't get you
You'll be there when I die
Tattoo
Now I'm older, I'm tattooed all over
My wife is tattooed too
A rooty-toot-toot, rooty-tooty-toot-toot
Rooty-toot-toot tattoo too
wolfie001
(8,069 posts)Remember that horseshit? This is a seat we need.
Ars Longa
(612 posts)My SIL was one
fun times!!!!! (Sarcasm)
This is reminisent.
Icanthinkformyself
(434 posts)said they were uncomfortable with him and several others with whom he had relationships have said Platner was a good person. I believe the women. That said, I don't recall anyone accusing him of raping them when he was in his 40s and 50s and the victim was 12 to 15. I don't recall any of his accusers saying he raped them either in a store dressing room or anywhere else or otherwise sexually assaulted them. But, that will not stop the right wing corporate media from disparaging and slandering him with misinformation, lies and propaganda, with a heaping helping of shyt from the 'moderate' (read shythead conservative) Democrats. Establishment Dems are as bad as the Republicans. All addicted to billionaire donors like a heroin junkie.
Uncle Joe
(65,762 posts)Thanks for the thread maxrandb
QueerDuck
(1,987 posts)... I would have been more forgiving and skeptical about this. But, I have a finite source of goodwill and benefit of the doubt. I know I'm not the only one who feels this way.
MineralMan
(151,794 posts)It will be the voters in Maine who decide, thank goodness.
I'll be happy to have them make the decision, and will trust them to be fed up with Susan Collins, finally.
The rest of us can talk about it until we're blue in the face, but that won't make an ounce of difference.