Cancer Support
Related: About this forumI'm ticked that Trump will outlive me
He's over a decade older, overweight, doesn't exercise eats a bad diet
..
I eat a very healthy diet exercise don't drink, smoke or take drugs.
Anyway I got the all clear from uterine cancer in time to be diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. I have months. I was so looking forward to partying when the evil doer was gone.
Easterncedar
(6,069 posts)For your sake.
Love.
Laurelin
(868 posts)It would be nice
viva la
(4,580 posts)So much sadness-- the Carters, Jesse Jackson-- all these good people have gone before him.
I hope you can keep on, but no matter what, we'll keep fighting.
Laurelin
(868 posts)I make it until election day...but I'm glad you'll keep fighting
pat_k
(13,145 posts)...with this terrible news.
I am sure you have already looked into it, but there are many clinical trials for pancreatic cancer underway. Your oncologist is probably aware of anything promising in your area. Or you can explore centers in your area on your own. For example, here in Seattle, Fred Hutchinson in involved in research involving targeted drugs and genetically modified immune-cell therapies.
Clinicaltrials.gov is more of a scattershot approach, but clinicaltrials.gov results can be narrowed by applying filters like "recruiting" "interventional" "phase X" location, age, and adding "stage X" as a keyword. And then there are sponsors, like the Pancreatic Action Network https://pancan.org/research/
Laurelin
(868 posts)My oncologist is not looking out for clinical trials and I have to start looking myself so thank you for getting me started.
pat_k
(13,145 posts)My heart is with you.
And a P.S.
The PanCAN network also provides resources and free consultation. I can't vouch for them because I don't know anyone who has consulted, but it may be a decent place to start: https://pancan.org/facing-pancreatic-cancer/
SheltieLover
(79,609 posts)Laurelin
(868 posts)💕
SheltieLover
(79,609 posts)AltairIV
(1,025 posts)that you are wrong on both points.
Laurelin
(868 posts)❤️
Lifeafter70
(923 posts)Cause that's one party we are all looking forward to.
Sending you much warmth and healing vibes
Laurelin
(868 posts)Even though, sadly, there are plenty of replacement monsters
murielm99
(32,912 posts)I will remember you when I party.
I am 77 and have had a variety of health problems, including cancer. I hope I outlive the SOB, but it may be a vain hope.
Laurelin
(868 posts)Raise a glass of whatever and celebrate!
1WorldHope
(1,989 posts)I'm so sorry you got that news. My ex husband has had all kinds of treatment for pancreatic cancer. He's been fighting it for years. But his life has been taken over with the treatments. It a hard row to hoe. I wish you a lot of love in whatever time you have left here on this mysterious blue marble in the Milky Way. 💜
Laurelin
(868 posts)I'm very lucky that I have lots of love and support. And I'm glad for all the kind people on DU ❤️
louis-t
(24,599 posts)be able to get one-day passes to go down and line up to punch him in the mouth.
Laurelin
(868 posts)That would be great 😁
Marie Marie
(11,172 posts)Laurelin
(868 posts)Me too, if it doesn't get too awful. I really want to dance at the funeral. Usually I'm a nice person but not in this case.
brer cat
(27,523 posts)It is a nasty one and very hard to defeat. I hope you are comfortable and have a chance to beat the odds.
Laurelin
(868 posts)My doctors say i won't suffer, at least. I love your name btw
sinkingfeeling
(57,699 posts)Laurelin
(868 posts)Thank you
Grim Chieftain
(1,590 posts)Please keep fighting, Laurelin
You are in my thoughts and yes, prayers.
Laurelin
(868 posts)Thank you!
Grim Chieftain
(1,590 posts)In spades.
🫶🏽🤞🏽🫶🏽
mn9driver
(4,844 posts)Its difficult news when there are the beginning signs of progress for some of these intractable cancers. I hope you get a miracle.
Thank you 💖
BaronChocula
(4,419 posts)We're all hoping you still outlive him. Sending hugs.
Laurelin
(868 posts)Thanks! 💗
LoisB
(12,803 posts)I need both! ❤️
LoisB
(12,803 posts)Wild blueberry
(8,240 posts)Look at the sky, walk on earth, smell flowers, pet a furry friend, hug your loved ones (and feel their hugs for you).
Every day you have is better than Dumpy's entire life. You already outlive him.
You will party wherever you are.
Sending love.
Laurelin
(868 posts)That every one of my worst days are better than trump's best. But I think they are!
My garden (and the parks and roadsides) are bursting with daffodils right now. Rhododendrens are blooming and my magnolia is covered in buds. And I have an indoor basket of hyacinths. Pity none of my current furries approve of cuddles or pets though
choie
(6,870 posts)My heart breaks for you. You're in my thoughts.
Laurelin
(868 posts)❤️🩹
irisblue
(37,319 posts)Thank you irisblue
generalbetrayus
(1,760 posts)If he doesn't die before you do, I will keep you in mind when we have the big celebration here at DU.
My ex-wife died of uterine cancer and my sister Debby died of ovarian cancer. I hate, hate, HATE cancer.
Laurelin
(868 posts)I'm so sorry for your losses. I agree with your politics and your hatred of cancer, and I'm sorry for your losses
BoomaofBandM
(1,951 posts)Lost my sister to pancreatic cancer. She lived longer than expected yet never long enough. She hated Trump and I think we all felt as you do. Its jyst not fair.
Laurelin
(868 posts)Thank you 💖
niyad
(131,632 posts)That would be great. ❤️
otchmoson
(320 posts)but new treatments keep coming. And I DO hear more positive responses (if not outcomes) as each year passes. My wish for you is to hang on and keep fighting. Some day (like the accidental discovery of penicillin by Fleming) some researcher will get an unexpected EUREKA moment. We just can't know when that moment will occur.
Laurelin
(868 posts)That would be wonderful
ms.pamela
(86 posts)I understand there are new treatments for pancreatic cancer, please check them out with your oncologist.
Laurelin
(868 posts)I'll get a second opinion once I've finished all the tests.
Bayard
(29,352 posts)Everybody hates trump. We all love you, and hope for the best.
Laurelin
(868 posts)IA8IT
(6,400 posts)Pancreatic took my wife ten years ago.
Laurelin
(868 posts)And glad you got through.... you know I'm sad to leave my husband...
Clouds Passing
(7,806 posts)Heres to chances your dreams come true, healing for you 💚
He 🏒🏒 (double hockey sticks) for him
Laurelin
(868 posts)Thank you so much!
Kid Berwyn
(24,045 posts)The real Laurelin is for ever.
Laurelin
(868 posts)? Asking for a friend 🙃
LetMyPeopleVote
(178,515 posts)You will be in my prayers. With any luck you may be able to outlast trump
Laurelin
(868 posts)❤️
Ocelot II
(130,199 posts)and that he goes before you.
Laurelin
(868 posts)stage left
(3,270 posts)I hope you and all of us Duers are here to celebrate. May love sustain you.
Laurelin
(868 posts)It will be a beautiful day....
Playingmantis
(604 posts)There are no words but you arent alone. There are hundreds here rooting for you..
Laurelin
(868 posts)Thank you for rooting for me
Fla Dem
(27,555 posts)We all hope we get to see this monster stop breathing while we still are.
But miracles do happen and I so pray one will come your way.
Peace be with you.
Laurelin
(868 posts)For your kind thoughts and prayers
BubbaJoe
(26 posts)There are several studies in the NIH database about Chamomile and more specifically the Apigenin in chamomile having an effect on numerous cancers promoting apoptosis (cancer cell death). I do not recall if it has an effect on pancreatic cancer. I just mention it as drinking chamomile, taking ground chamomile or even apigenin suppliments may be a "can't hurt, may help" scenario.
Laurelin
(868 posts)And might even help me sleep! Thanks.
Joinfortmill
(20,922 posts)I prayed for you. It can't hurt.
Laurelin
(868 posts)So thank you!
Joinfortmill
(20,922 posts)marked50
(1,575 posts)Lonestarblue
(13,434 posts)Laurelin
(868 posts)And keep up the good fight! (I still vote in Pflugerville)
multigraincracker
(37,384 posts)Laurelin
(868 posts)❤️
QueerDuck
(1,505 posts)My best friend in the world lived EIGHT YEARS after his pancreatic cancer diagnosis. It's a tough road ahead, but nothing is certain... so don't give up. xoxo
Laurelin
(868 posts)Thanks for sharing
yardwork
(69,255 posts)Laurelin
(868 posts)PJMcK
(24,999 posts)Find peace and focus on yourself.
I wish you well.
Laurelin
(868 posts)Difficult to follow.... thanks for your kind thoughts!
Figarosmom
(11,388 posts)He may still go first and you could still piss on his grave.
Laurelin
(868 posts)I'm definitely adding "pissing on his grave" to my bucket list!
angrychair
(12,121 posts)There are some great treatments out there, especially in other countries. I know that there has been some great work in Spain but I think it's in the early stages
Very best wishes for a good outcome.
Laurelin
(868 posts)I'm looking at Germany for a second opinion but I'll check Spain too!
BeneteauBum
(410 posts)Lets plan on enjoying a beverage of choice for that occasion. My hope is that you be able to join us!
Peace ☮️
Thank you. 🥂
Cha
(318,421 posts)🌷⚘️🌷🌸⚘️ (I live in the Netherlands so the extra tulips were necessary)
chia
(2,796 posts)💕
calimary
(89,721 posts)And frankly, Im just focusing on that.
You have healthy habits and thatll make a difference, Laurelin. Hope youll be here with us for a LOOOOONNNNNNNG time to come!
Laurelin
(868 posts)It is good to be here, especially with the bulbs in bloom
🌷🥀
calimary
(89,721 posts)Mz Pip
(28,428 posts)❤️
❤️
Aussie105
(7,813 posts)What Trump is doing isn't living, it is twitching and generating random reactionary brain impulses.
Can he stop to appreciate the color and smell of roses?
Can he marvel at the innocence of children?
Can he look at the blue sky while contemplating his worth as a human being?
Sympathies to you by the truckload, but you die a much better person than Trump ever was or could have been.
At the age of 77, I feel I'm dying.
It's a slow, irreversible process, with no specific cause at the moment, but I can feel it.
My ambition, if you can call it that, is to die with my mind and soul intact.
That puts you and me one up on Trump in a big way.
I salute you for a life well lived.
Laurelin
(868 posts)I think you'll achieve it.
Thank you! 🩷
SergeStorms
(20,418 posts)not even those with "perfect" health know how long we have. There are so many variables in life.
We all wish you the best. Sometimes the "Big C" will vacate the body as mysteriously as it appears.
Hope for a miracle, and we'll all hope with you.
The atoms of which your present iteration of "Laurelin" is comprised have existed since the dawn of time, and they will continue to exist forever. At worst, you're not going away, you're changing, and none of us know what that change means for us.
The caterpillar 🐛 thought it's life was over, and then became a butterfly. 🦋
You are loved, whether you're the caterpillar or the butterfly. ❤️
Laurelin
(868 posts)🦋
applegrove
(131,669 posts)Laurelin
(868 posts)I intend to. Thank you!
Faux pas
(16,284 posts)vibes Laurelin
Laurelin
(868 posts)OldBaldy1701E
(10,940 posts)I also hope that what you are asking for becomes a reality before that time arrives.
It might.
Laurelin
(868 posts)It might indeed!
Solly Mack
(96,803 posts)Sorry to hear this. I am wishing you the best.
Laurelin
(868 posts)For your kind wishes
Trueblue Texan
(4,375 posts)I will party my ass off and represent you proudly when he is gone.
Laurelin
(868 posts)Because we blue Texans do know how to party 🥳
dem4decades
(13,960 posts)May you pop the cork on your champagne and celebrate your life and his death.
Laurelin
(868 posts)Thank you!
c-rational
(3,182 posts)spirit.
Laurelin
(868 posts)Today my spirit is a bit of a mess.
Martin68
(27,534 posts)Laurelin
(868 posts)❤️
cate94
(3,086 posts)I hear there are some promising drug trials out there, I hope your doctor finds one to work for you. Sending prayers and healing vibes your way. May you dance on his grave.
💃 ❤️
Kath2
(3,190 posts)Hoping you will beat the odds and party when he is through!!! PEACE to you!
🥳 I hope so too
HeartsCanHope
(1,630 posts)You and your family will be in my thoughts. Sending you love and light.
Laurelin
(868 posts)Thank you
KT2000
(22,098 posts)There are no words but I am wishing a miracle for you.
I would love a miracle! ❤️
Hope22
(4,659 posts)We never know! Every morning millions of people ask is he dead yet? Love to you!💗💗🙏🏼💐
Thank you!
CaptainTruth
(8,164 posts)Laurelin
(868 posts)❤️
JMCKUSICK
(5,835 posts)God Speed Laurelin.
Laurelin
(868 posts)Thank you 💖
summer_in_TX
(4,120 posts)I am truly sorry to hear of your diagnosis. I know there are some new treatments that can work and I hope you are one of the ones to benefit.
I hope and pray that you will be hear to laugh at his death.
Laurelin
(868 posts)When is it not summer in Texas?
❤️🧡💛💚💙
Jacson6
(1,915 posts)You can laugh heartedly as he is burning in hell.
Laurelin
(868 posts)Erda
(227 posts)I am sending you prayers and lots of love.
🙏 ❤️ 💙 💜