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spinbaby

(15,405 posts)
Tue Aug 17, 2021, 03:23 PM Aug 2021

Fear of public restrooms

Maybe some of the smart minds in here can offer suggestions.

I have an eight-year-old grandson with autism. He has very minimal communication skills, but is toilet trained.

A thing that happened during the pandemic is that he’s developed a fear of public restrooms. Bathrooms at mommy’s, daddy’s, grandma’s, and school are just fine, but a public restroom is met with frantic screaming, clawing, and fighting to get away. We think this has to do with auto-flush toilets, although sinks and paper-towel dispensers seem to elicit the same response. He’s already difficult enough to take out, this doesn’t make it any easier.

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Fear of public restrooms (Original Post) spinbaby Aug 2021 OP
hearing protection? or would wearing a set of those scare him as well? Thomas Hurt Aug 2021 #1
He's not normally bothered by noise spinbaby Aug 2021 #2
When both my granddaughter s were small blueinredohio Aug 2021 #3

blueinredohio

(6,797 posts)
3. When both my granddaughter s were small
Tue Aug 17, 2021, 04:47 PM
Aug 2021

they were scared to death of public bathrooms not because of auto flush but because they were so loud.

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