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ShazzieB

(22,557 posts)
Tue Mar 17, 2026, 02:38 PM Mar 17

The latest on Willow (not happy news, sorry)

Last edited Tue Mar 17, 2026, 04:05 PM - Edit history (1)

Since I last posted about Willow back in January, her condition has continued to decline. Some days are better than others, but none of them are great at this point. Mr. B and I have reluctantly decided to stop putting off the inevitable. We've scheduled a vet appointment for noon on Thursday.

I know it's going to be hard, and the reality hasn't fully hit me yet, but we're at peace with this decision. As much as we hate the thought of losing her, I feel like we've been gradually losing her little by little for months now. In a weird sort of way, it's a relief to know it'll be over soon, for her and for us.

Thank you all for your support. It is deeply appreciated!

P.S.Sorry about the duplicate post! I will leave it up since it got a couple of replies before I saw it.

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The latest on Willow (not happy news, sorry) (Original Post) ShazzieB Mar 17 OP
Healing vibes on the way to Willow, you, & hubby SheltieLover Mar 17 #1
Hugs for Willow and you and Mr. B MustLoveBeagles Mar 17 #2
It is a very sad and difficult decision Lifeafter70 Mar 17 #3
... 2naSalit Mar 17 #4
This is very sad. I am sorry. LoisB Mar 17 #5
I'm sorry ShazzieB... All we can do is support them the best we can to assure quality of life... hlthe2b Mar 17 #6
We've been there too many times... GiqueCee Mar 17 #7
Pyrenees rescue kcoates Mar 17 #23
Honey's a she... GiqueCee Mar 17 #24
I have a Pyrenees, Alexander. He is our big beautiful baby. Polly Hennessey Wednesday #28
You are in my thoughts Grim Chieftain Mar 17 #8
I will be thinking of all of you on Thursday. I sm so sorry irisblue Mar 17 #9
I'm so sorry, ShazzieB. It is a terrible decision to make, brer cat Mar 17 #10
Please read... oldsoldierfadingfast Mar 17 #11
You are doing the right thing. multigraincracker Mar 17 #12
I'm so sorry Danmel Mar 17 #13
I'm so sorry Danmel Mar 17 #14
😢💐 blm Mar 17 #15
My vet, who is one of the kindest people I've ever met, said that letting our babies go is the hardest, HeartsCanHope Mar 17 #16
We feel for you Old Crank Mar 17 #17
My deepest condolences. AltairIV Mar 17 #18
... orangecrush Mar 17 #19
I'm sorry cate94 Mar 17 #20
I'm so sorry. I lost my Willow several years ago and I still miss her. I lived with her longer than any human. chowder66 Mar 17 #21
I'm so sorry. Oneironaut Mar 17 #22
It's never easy Mz Pip Wednesday #25
I am so sorry. Laffy Kat Wednesday #26
This is the hard part. We all know it is inevitable but knowing that doesn't make it easy. Polly Hennessey Wednesday #27
Holding you and Willow in my heart. It's a painful parting indeed. n/t TygrBright Wednesday #29
It's always hard to take the hurt of losing them so they don't have to suffer anymore CousinIT Wednesday #30
So sorry for your loss. Glaisne Wednesday #31
I'm so sorry. mountain grammy Wednesday #32
Thinking about you today, ShazzieB Grim Chieftain Thursday #33

Lifeafter70

(964 posts)
3. It is a very sad and difficult decision
Tue Mar 17, 2026, 03:13 PM
Mar 17

Hubby and I prolonged our snootchie's life for months with water therapy and laser therapy. We finally had to decide whether we were prolonging her pain because it was too difficult to let go. That was almost ten years ago and I still miss her.

My heart goes out to you in this very painful time.
Hubby made this vid of Snootchie Bootchies and Randall when Randall was a just a puppy in 2006. We lost Randall last year. He is now jumping in piles of leaves with his sis.

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hlthe2b

(113,829 posts)
6. I'm sorry ShazzieB... All we can do is support them the best we can to assure quality of life...
Tue Mar 17, 2026, 03:33 PM
Mar 17

When that is no longer possible then removing suffering is the final gift of love we can give them.

That won't alleviate the sadness, but please be at peace.

GiqueCee

(4,179 posts)
7. We've been there too many times...
Tue Mar 17, 2026, 03:37 PM
Mar 17

... but we just have love them while we've got them.
We now have a 2-year-old Great Pyrenees/Redbone-mix rescue from Texas named Honey. She's our big orange, floppy-eared house horse.
Our hearts are with you, ShazzieB.

kcoates

(75 posts)
23. Pyrenees rescue
Tue Mar 17, 2026, 07:49 PM
Mar 17

I do Pyrenees rescue in Texas, Saving Pyrenees in Need (SPIN). Is he one of ours?

GiqueCee

(4,179 posts)
24. Honey's a she...
Tue Mar 17, 2026, 10:53 PM
Mar 17

... but I'll have to dig out her papers to recall where she came from. She looks more like a Redbone than a Pyrenees, though that's what her DNA test told was dominant.
It's late, so I'll look that up tomorrow and let you know. Thanks for your interest, and thanks especially for working to save other fur babies!

Polly Hennessey

(8,820 posts)
28. I have a Pyrenees, Alexander. He is our big beautiful baby.
Wed Mar 18, 2026, 10:25 AM
Wednesday

Oh, that is him now, barking.

Grim Chieftain

(1,695 posts)
8. You are in my thoughts
Tue Mar 17, 2026, 03:57 PM
Mar 17

Now and on Thursday. Sometimes doing the right thing is the hardest. Take care.

brer cat

(27,566 posts)
10. I'm so sorry, ShazzieB. It is a terrible decision to make,
Tue Mar 17, 2026, 04:24 PM
Mar 17

but remember that it is kindness to relieve her suffering. I will keep you in my heart.

11. Please read...
Tue Mar 17, 2026, 04:25 PM
Mar 17

LetMyPeopleVote's post re: chocolate before you take Willow to the vet.
Why does doing the "right thing" hurt so bad? I don't know, but I do know so many DUers will want to take you and Mr. B in their arms and they will cry with and for you both on Thurs.

multigraincracker

(37,599 posts)
12. You are doing the right thing.
Tue Mar 17, 2026, 04:29 PM
Mar 17

When I get so bad someone has to wipe my butt, wish someone could take me to the vet.
My ex was euthanasia tech and was there for many dogs and cats getting that finale shot. Very peaceful for an animal in pain. First shot relaxed them. Then the second one, there a peaceful sigh as they fall asleep.

HeartsCanHope

(1,665 posts)
16. My vet, who is one of the kindest people I've ever met, said that letting our babies go is the hardest,
Tue Mar 17, 2026, 04:34 PM
Mar 17

but most loving thing we can do for our animal companions at the end of their life. I'm sorry you all have to go through this,

and I will be thinking of you all on Thursday. Please give Willow some loves from me.

Old Crank

(7,021 posts)
17. We feel for you
Tue Mar 17, 2026, 04:39 PM
Mar 17

We just had to deal with our little dog yesterday, we had for 14 years. Not a happy day for all involved.
Take care of yourselves.

AltairIV

(1,039 posts)
18. My deepest condolences.
Tue Mar 17, 2026, 05:04 PM
Mar 17

This is an extremely difficult decision and is never easy. May your remaining time together be filled with the simple joy of sharing each others company.

chowder66

(12,220 posts)
21. I'm so sorry. I lost my Willow several years ago and I still miss her. I lived with her longer than any human.
Tue Mar 17, 2026, 05:34 PM
Mar 17

Oneironaut

(6,289 posts)
22. I'm so sorry.
Tue Mar 17, 2026, 05:34 PM
Mar 17

It's the worst thing about them - our time with them is always too short and always ends. However, it's always worth it - at least she had good times with you.

Polly Hennessey

(8,820 posts)
27. This is the hard part. We all know it is inevitable but knowing that doesn't make it easy.
Wed Mar 18, 2026, 10:21 AM
Wednesday

Willow is probably ready. Take care on Thursday and thankfully you will be with her.

CousinIT

(12,516 posts)
30. It's always hard to take the hurt of losing them so they don't have to suffer anymore
Wed Mar 18, 2026, 11:44 AM
Wednesday

But it is a final, heartwrenching act of pure love. You are doing the right thing for her.

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