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hamsterjill

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58. When someone who doesn't have a lot GIVES, it is truly a beautiful thing.

Sun Sep 28, 2025, 11:21 PM

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If Elon Musk gave the woman $100 (yeah, right!!!) it wouldn't be much. But when someone (like most of us) gives something that they really COULD use themselves, that's when it's truly a "gift".

I think you are sensing the uncertainty of things right now and worried that your family may need it. But I think that's because the world is in such upheaval right now. I think the universe is going to send good karma to you, and I think you should be happy about what you did - and just let the rest fall into place.

You are a good person. Full stop.

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