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Bettie

(19,527 posts)
8. She is a terrible mother
Thu Feb 19, 2026, 08:25 PM
Thursday

she doesn't care about her child.

Yes, I literally believe that.

I've seen it before, some very religious people see their kids as symbols of their status within their churches. If one dies, well, it means their status goes up for a while as the church gathers around them lauding their suffering and the piety with which they accept it. If the child has a long standing illness, especially with visible effects, then she's the darling of the whole church community....and yet, she can also be so cavalier about having other children.

We lost a child. Our children, even now, with the youngest 17, are treasures to us. We would never willingly endanger their lives. This woman chose to leave her children open to a disease and seems happy with the outcome.

This woman makes me sick...literally nauseated. I want to take her to a cemetery from before vaccines and show her lines of graves of multiple children from family after family.

But. it wouldn't matter because you can't fix stupid.

Yes, I'm mean. Cruel even. I can't stand the idiocy.

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This Is Child Abuse -- Digby [View all] erronis Thursday OP
parents sound like religious nutcases Skittles Thursday #1
"We're negligent assholes, but it's really God's fault - CERTAINLY not our fault!" hatrack Thursday #2
Oh, but they're "not blaming God for this" Wednesdays Thursday #10
Yes, it is. Solly Mack Thursday #3
They'd rather have a dead child than a kid with autism. WhiskeyGrinder Thursday #4
Which isn't even BigMin28 Thursday #6
Not only are they willing to kill their child for Jesus, mercuryblues Thursday #5
Why's he in the hospital then? Take him home. See if god wants to save him. IcyPeas Thursday #7
She is a terrible mother Bettie Thursday #8
"But God has chosen Ethan for a reason. God is doing something, and we're gonna glorify his name regardless". chouchou Thursday #9
Disgusting excuse for a mother. wnylib Thursday #11
We're not blaming God for this. But God has chosen Ethan for a reason. God is doing sometning. patphil Thursday #12
religious nutcases Skittles Thursday #13
Dead children don't get autism. twodogsbarking Thursday #14
And we wouldn't change it any other way," the mom continued. "If I knew this could be the outcome, I still wouldn't have choie Thursday #15
"We're not blaming God for this," Intractable Thursday #16
they shouldn't blame god. god, from what i've heard, gives people FREE WILL orleans Thursday #18
stupid burns. but the majority of the unvaxed survived. pansypoo53219 Thursday #17
Always with the god excuse. Bristlecone Thursday #19
NO child... GiqueCee Thursday #20
This says it all, Buddyzbuddy Thursday #21
All of their children should be taken from them. SamKnause Friday #22
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