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flashman13

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31. You didn't mention whether the student was male or female. I would guess it was a male.

Mon Mar 16, 2026, 04:42 PM

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I'll be blunt here. My personal experience is that today's young men are just plain lazy. They seem to be entirely centered on entertaining themselves. I believe women understand that to get anywhere in this world you have to work at it. That's a generational thing because women have always had to work twice as hard as men to attain their goals. When I was in engineering school there was one woman in the entire college. Now in most engineering schools the numbers are at least close to even and the women are out performing men.

Pro tip to my fellow men: If you want to get dates, don't be an ignorant creep. Be able to carry on an intelligent conversation. Learn some manners. And don't be a MAGAt.

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This, right here. relayerbob Monday #20

Tell them: the most important thing you need to learn from this class... Wounded Bear Monday #3

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Wow. Traildogbob Monday #22

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Except be president. ananda Monday #10

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and "I wasted my whole weekend studying when I could have been having a good time!" erronis Monday #8

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Tell the student they can get five points of credit on the assignment... littlemissmartypants Monday #9

But don't hold your breath while waiting SheltieLover Monday #27

Exactly. I taught at a state college in NC. littlemissmartypants Yesterday #56

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Answer email with message to refer to their class notes. SheltieLover Monday #26

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You didn't mention whether the student was male or female. I would guess it was a male. flashman13 Monday #31

Yes, a male. nt Coventina Monday #37

"...don't be an ignorant creep..." is a good place to start. 3catwoman3 Monday #43

Agree completely Grim Chieftain Monday #32

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Let me provide some balance here Sympthsical Monday #36

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I understand that Sympthsical Monday #46

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You did really well for someone without prior knowledge! Coventina Yesterday #67

Interesting BlueSpot 15 hrs ago #86

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I'm having a hard time understanding the replies here given OP's presentation of the assignment. Ilikepurple 21 hrs ago #81

"go out of my way" lol...there is a non so subtle messag in that phrase BlueWaveNeverEnd 20 hrs ago #83