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In reply to the discussion: Some Friends, Eh. [View all]

PatSeg

(53,524 posts)
12. Whoa, that was brutal
Fri May 15, 2026, 05:24 PM
Friday

I was a long time smoker and I have COPD. Everyone has vices or addictions. What makes some total strangers on the Internet think they can pass judgment on people they don't know?

Of course, I was raised at a time when almost everyone I knew smoked and there was little or no concern about health risks aside from an occasional nagging cough. Some doctors even recommended smoking to calm nerves or to lose weight.

Social media has allowed me to keep in touch with old friends and family. We share photos, life events, and memories, but there are people who go online without a filter and cut down people they don't know. It is unsettling and can even be dangerous. The lack of sensitivity and accountability is stunning. It is hard to imagine what could cause such mindless cruelty.

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Some Friends, Eh. [View all] MineralMan Friday OP
Jeez. underpants Friday #1
I wish for your healing Keepthesoulalive Friday #2
I am sorry. I will never understand the lack of empathy in so many people. LoisB Friday #3
Not helpful, just mean... some_of_us_are_sane Friday #4
Sorry that happened to you, MineralMan. HeartsCanHope Friday #5
Feel better. mr715 Friday #6
If you don't have personal FTF contact with them they could be bots. littlemissmartypants Friday #7
those kind of people can seriously go fuck themselves Skittles Friday #8
COPD . . . AverageOldGuy Friday #9
may I say, AOG Skittles Friday #23
Whatever filthy habit you have, or don't have, you are one of my favorite posters on D.U. I always save a 3Hotdogs Friday #10
Breathe well. cachukis Friday #11
Whoa, that was brutal PatSeg Friday #12
Nextdoor? FHRRK1 Friday #13
omg Skittles Friday #24
And they really are neighbors FHRRK1 Friday #30
Projection nuxvomica Friday #14
Wow, I am so sorry EuterpeThelo Friday #15
Could you imagine KT2000 Friday #16
I was thinking that about the local "Karen" I am frequently mistaken for Skittles Friday #25
Explains a lot of where this country is today BaronChocula Friday #17
I really hope you unfriend those people. And I wish you health and healing. Maraya1969 Friday #18
The cloak of anonymity gives people cover to be judgmental without TheProle Friday #19
Glad to have you back with us, MM... Totally Tunsie Friday #20
Oh, dear MineralMan Grim Chieftain Friday #21
Sounds like some of trolls MIRT deals with daily. hunter Friday #22
so sorry... markie Friday #26
That is absolutely outrageous! I'd beat 'em up for you if I could. nt CozyMystery Friday #27
Filthy Habits JoseBalow Friday #28
Ignore them MustLoveBeagles Friday #29
Who does that? peggysue2 Friday #31
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