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csusan

(118 posts)
37. My feelings if it matters since I'm a woman
Sun Jun 7, 2026, 01:16 PM
Sunday

I'm 73. I remember being single and getting birth control for the first time. My friends and I sat around discussing excuses we could give a doctor regarding why we needed it. How sad is that. I remember when women couldn't have credit cards. How sad is that. I remember when a married woman couldn't be raped by her husband-her body became his when they married. How sad is that.
I have read what platnar said about women. I didn't like it and felt it was insensitive and lacked an understanding of how women feel. I also feel that women do sometimes put themselves in dangerous situations. No woman is ever asking to get assaulted but unfortunately if we want to increase the odds in our favor we do need to be careful how much drink, who we go home with, how often we go out alone and where we go alone. I know women jog on their own. It should be safe but it isn't. I read of a woman who went home with two men to do more drugs. She called a friend just in case but ended up dead anyway. I read that and thought "what the hell were you thinking." Sometimes women do put themselves in bad situations. How sad is that. We have to be more careful and NO we shouldn't have to but sadly it's up to us to protect ourselves. There of course are times that we have no control with what happens. To make women total victims who could have done nothing to change an outcome takes our power away.
I'm not condoning what platnar said. I'm willing to give him the benefit of the doubt. I don't live in Maine so it's not my place to say anything more than how maine votes will impact me and all women. I think Platnar has the best chance of winning and beating Collins. I have not seen the nazi symbol and have no idea what it looks like. My father was in WWW II. He came home with tattoos. He said he and his buddies got drunk and got the tattoos. They just picked ones they thought looked cool and that they could show girls/women when they got home. I'm not convinced Platnar knew what it was. If he did seems to me he would have had the sense to remove it before running for office. kinda of a dead give away if you really are a nazi.
I think some at DU pick a position and absolutely will not consider or rethink. The more people try to discuss with them the more entrenched they become. They will not budge. Their whole goal is to argue and win not discuss.






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what's worse than a "nazi tattoo"? [View all] ProfessorPlum Saturday OP
He's made a lot of choices that I find troubling EdmondDantes_ Saturday #1
Now do Susan Collins and her "choices". AloeVera Saturday #3
Thank you. H2O Man Sunday #10
Yeah, NS, Sherlock, That A Democrat Is Better Than A Republican. But.... ColoringFool Sunday #12
The primary is in a few days and this hit piece in the NYT comes out a week before .... cliffside Sunday #17
Suspicious, no? peggysue2 Sunday #34
Angus King and John Bolton have the same mustache -- coincidence? mr715 19 hrs ago #47
The primary is in 3 hours... mr715 20 hrs ago #45
Well, My Dear Watson, AloeVera Sunday #21
Irene Adler she is not. mr715 20 hrs ago #46
I wouldn't vote for Collins because I don't like her policies EdmondDantes_ Sunday #29
Do you like Platner's policies? Would you vote for him if you could and if his Reddit posts, tattoo etc were not known? AloeVera Sunday #32
It will be hard to argue with the purist oldmanlynn Sunday #33
Not convinced it's all purity for purity's sake. Some no doubt genuine, some a cynical exploitation of that propensity. AloeVera Sunday #35
Compared to the demons in human skin who are currently ProfessorPlum Sunday #5
are we now saying that Susan Collins - and every other person with an R behind their name stopdiggin Sunday #9
fetch the smelling salts ProfessorPlum Sunday #14
They are happily starving children, seniors and poor people in general, literally starving them, questionseverything Yesterday #41
yes, I had it before .. stopdiggin 20 hrs ago #44
Yeah, all that is far worse than voting to approve Kavanaugh's nomination tishaLA Sunday #7
Don't care fujiyamasan Sunday #18
Thank you for this comment. Irish_Dem Sunday #19
I agree, we need to keep our eyes on the prize Walleye Saturday #2
See my comments. usonian Saturday #4
False dichotomy Boo1 Sunday #6
Well said canetoad Sunday #8
Believable to you. It bears qualification. I also know a lot about.... ColoringFool Sunday #13
Can you articulate canetoad Sunday #15
Speaking for myself... I can explain why. QueerDuck Sunday #20
I Hope You Live In Maine! 😉 ColoringFool Sunday #11
Pictures of him with his shirt off at his brother's wedding, his sister-in-law is Jewish and posted the photo of him ... cliffside Sunday #16
A toxic human being is way worse than a toxic tattoo JCMach1 Sunday #22
It may be too late to recover. MineralMan Sunday #23
Yes. In hindsight, it was naive to hope Platner wouldn't be taken down. AloeVera Sunday #24
Well, it was always going to be a close race. MineralMan Sunday #26
Oh well. At least we learned about the Totenkopf. AloeVera Sunday #30
Good point. MineralMan Sunday #40
What I am hearing is he has volunteers on the ground working questionseverything Sunday #39
I agree. It's purposeful ratfucking. harumph Sunday #25
Exactly. Easterncedar Sunday #27
There are three Democratic candidates on the ME ballot. lapucelle Sunday #28
Once again, this is not solely about his nazi tattoo, but about ALL niyad Sunday #31
Disheartening, indeed. I see a lot of heartbreak and disappointment ahead. QueerDuck Sunday #36
My feelings if it matters since I'm a woman csusan Sunday #37
I would like to see a Democrat defeat Collins but I do not believe that Platner is the right person LetMyPeopleVote Sunday #38
It isn't a "Nazi tattoo" obamanut2012 Yesterday #42
A primary is being held and it is not between someone who made a dumb choice vs fascists. W_HAMILTON 23 hrs ago #43
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