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murielm99

(32,556 posts)
35. Years ago, it was possible.
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 04:35 PM
Nov 28

Patrons would sign a card and turn it in at the desk. The librarian at the desk would hand stamp a card in the book. We don't do it that way any more. Now it is much more anonymous. I did a lot of reading recommendation. Patrons would ask for Westerns, mysteries, science fiction, specific authors, reference questions, etc. That is confidential as well. But to this day I remember people's reading preferences. Sometimes they see me and remind me of our interactions.

On Thanksgiving day, I ran into a lady who was a former patron. I have to say that she had great kids. She is not so great. The woman would not even look at me on Thanksgiving when I saw her. We went out to a Thanksgiving buffet, and she was one table away from me. I would have smiled and said hello if she had not purposely ignored me. When she left, I said something to my husband. I told him that years ago, I had registered her to vote. We offered that service, too.

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People who ban books are never the good guys. CrispyQ Nov 28 #1
A lot of repigs are confused about their own sexuality. Duncanpup Nov 28 #2
I feel so sad for all those librarians. Nittersing Nov 28 #3
It is. They even made a documentary about it. . . Stargleamer Nov 28 #12
This is based on events in Tarrant County Texas (where I live) yellowdogintexas Nov 28 #21
It was be interesting to see how the upcoming house election turns out Tennesse! kimbutgar Nov 28 #4
Dream on, sadly. NoRethugFriends Nov 28 #8
I've only been to Memphis 25 years ago and it wasn't that crazy then. kimbutgar Nov 28 #9
Definitely! I lived in Davidson County for 15 years; until the last redistricting in 2021 that district was very blue yellowdogintexas Nov 28 #22
God forbid you go to a library Diamond_Dog Nov 28 #5
Republicans have a unique definition of freedom. ShazzieB Nov 28 #15
That is still censorship and murielm99 Nov 28 #24
I realize it's not a perfect solution Diamond_Dog Nov 28 #28
I've worked in libraries for more than a decade. llmart Nov 28 #27
See my response above (#28) Diamond_Dog Nov 28 #29
We never share circulation records. murielm99 Nov 28 #31
That's a given in libraries. llmart Nov 28 #34
Years ago, it was possible. murielm99 Nov 28 #35
Yes, I am old enough to remember those days. llmart Nov 28 #36
The HATE grows in my heart!! bluestarone Nov 28 #6
Don't you love it how he frames his EO as "Defending Women From Something Bad" Diamond_Dog Nov 28 #10
Sick, sick, sick. NewHendoLib Nov 28 #7
How long are they shutting down for? AZJonnie Nov 28 #11
Tennessee Mblaze Nov 28 #13
Libraries should get militant and challenge these assholes to come and take them. Efilroft Sul Nov 28 #14
Some do. They need support from murielm99 Nov 28 #25
They are sometimes quietly "militant". llmart Nov 28 #32
I doubt Fiddlelady11 Nov 28 #16
I don't know about the rest of you BWdem4life Nov 28 #17
My Memphis, 1973 -74 BidenRocks Nov 28 #18
To quote Heinrich Heine: BlueKota Nov 28 #19
This latest election cycle pfitz59 Nov 28 #20
When I was a public librarian, murielm99 Nov 28 #23
I had four different directors in the years I worked in public libraries. llmart Nov 28 #33
It would be great if Dolly Parton made a statement condemning this action, Bayard Nov 28 #26
I can't decide which state sucks the most, Texas was bad 40 years ago but TN is giving them a run for the money... wcmagumba Nov 28 #30
Ha! As if magats read!! IcyPeas Nov 28 #37
I am so damn glad I don't live there anymore. Laffy Kat Nov 28 #38
WOW, these rethugs are really fixated on other people's genitals, aren't they?? (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Nov 28 #39
I remember a conservative asking me, don't I find the idea of two men having sex disgusting? Skittles Nov 28 #41
Good on you! OldBaldy1701E Saturday #42
where are the people who whine about BIG GUBMINT Skittles Nov 28 #40
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