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Alice B.

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39. This is good to know and important research for many to follow.
Sat Nov 29, 2025, 12:02 AM
Nov 2025

I have several, somewhat discreetly located (depending on dress or whether I turn an arm this way or that. They were acquired over the course of nearly 30 years. Most commemorate things that aren't here any more. All are personal to me and ways of carrying things with me.

Nearly all give me great joy to look at. One, one of my first, didn't come out the way I hoped. As I said to an artist recently (who's also an ER nurse, btw), it doesn't actively bother me, however. I've had it so long, it's just another part of me. I'd consider a coverup on it if I could figure out what I want. It's not a burning need.

Tattoos are not everyone's cup of tea and that's fine. There are plenty of things that aren't mine. I just try very hard not to express my personal distaste in public and unkindly. Someone wrote upthread about things you'd hang over a mantle, which is kind of like things you'd say directly to someone, especially a stranger's face.

That said, this essay and reader comments may be illuminating. Recently from the Oldster Substack. Sari Bottom writes (and hopefully I did this right):

"a moving essay by Catherine Gigante-Brown about her assorted tattoos, what prompted her to get each one, and why the tattoo she recently got for her 66th birthday will, sadly, most likely be her final one.

... It’s a poignant story that gets at something I very much relate to: how powerful it can be to mark an occasion by literally marking yourself. It’s a very particular way of declaring something about yourself, or your intentions—to both yourself, and the world.

I thought it might be a good Friday Open Thread topic to prompt all of you with. In the comments please tell us:

How old are you? Do you have tattoos? How many? At what ages did you get them? Describe them. What was the emotional impact of getting them? Did they shift something for you, internally? Did you catch any flack for getting them? Are there any you regret? Have you ever had a regrettable tattoo covered up, or lasered off?"

https://oldster.substack.com/p/my-last-tattoo

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We may have fewer of them eventually IronLionZion Nov 2025 #3
Doesn't sound good for the walking billboards Bayard Nov 2025 #2
unrec BWdem4life Nov 2025 #8
My cousin's husband died from lymphoma. LisaM Nov 2025 #4
Same boat. ananda Nov 2025 #22
Do you recall the professor's name? PoindexterOglethorpe Nov 2025 #26
Here's all I could find. ananda Nov 2025 #28
Hmmm, there are books out there with tattoo designs PoindexterOglethorpe Nov 2025 #33
It was definitely Walter O'Connell. ananda Nov 2025 #35
I enjoy seeing a well done tattoo OnlinePoker Nov 2025 #5
Somebody start a Go Fund Me for Jelly Roll! JohnnyRingo Nov 2025 #6
Most ppl who get tattoos probably don't give a damn BWdem4life Nov 2025 #7
Thug lyfe JoseBalow Nov 2025 #11
Soooo, neither she nor the artist can spell??? niyad Nov 2025 #40
Good news! Hegseth has a lot of tattoos. Gimpyknee Nov 2025 #9
Was he, Maj. Dude Nov 2025 #10
DUzy!! 🏆🏅 littlemissmartypants Nov 2025 #17
This makes me smile LetMyPeopleVote Nov 2025 #21
Well, hell .. FirstLight Nov 2025 #12
Driven by the industry for financial gain bucolic_frolic Nov 2025 #13
Europe has banned certain ingredients Old Crank Nov 2025 #14
I am a liberal, but... BidenRocks Nov 2025 #15
I work in the schools. I am by far the oldest person there at 70, valleyrogue Nov 2025 #30
I'm also 70 and I see more older women BidenRocks Nov 2025 #32
My fav line... Grins Nov 2025 #43
It's a good thing those "pretty gals" you're glaring at don't get them for you. ForgoTheConsequence Nov 2025 #47
Can't say what I would do if I were 18 so I won't say what they should do. twodogsbarking Nov 2025 #16
Mom told me not to get... COL Mustard Nov 2025 #18
No surprise there relayerbob Nov 2025 #19
One of my kids has tattoos, so I'll pass on this info, thanks. No thanks to the judgmental commenters in this thread. chia Nov 2025 #20
My son, my grandson, my ex DIL, barbtries Nov 2025 #25
Doesn't take much for the judgmental folks to show themselves does it? luv2fly Nov 2025 #31
In what universe is it the same as fat-shaming? LisaM Nov 2025 #46
Ya think? Stacey Grove Nov 2025 #23
Been waiting for this to come out pattyloutwo Nov 2025 #24
It is a mystery to me why anybody gets tattoos, especially women. valleyrogue Nov 2025 #27
I don't have any - but I'm considering one. Ms. Toad Nov 2025 #37
I know a number of people who have gotten tattoos for that exact reason. niyad Nov 2025 #41
My Mother use to say... sellitman Nov 2025 #29
'Becomes' ? Strelnikov_ Nov 2025 #34
I don't have any tattoos; If I ever get some, I think that would signal the demise of the entire tattoo craze. NBachers Nov 2025 #36
If this is true why aren't Yakuza YoshidaYui Nov 2025 #38
This is good to know and important research for many to follow. Alice B. Nov 2025 #39
I have several friends, including women my age, who are rather heavily inked. niyad Nov 2025 #42
I am 68 and back in the 1960's and 70's kellytore Nov 2025 #44
Good to know. I have one: Faith / fear ... I got it bc of the regime. live love laugh Nov 2025 #45
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