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TommyT139

(2,582 posts)
20. An obstacle, at least in the communities I know
Sat Jul 11, 2026, 08:07 PM
Saturday

...is that for the het/pans (where most of the bisexual men I know hang out, at least if they want to play with women much of the time), most of them are using scene names -- pseudonyms that might be the primary identity they are known by, even by people they play with. An event might require legal ID for proof of age, but only at the door. The more organized clubs might run the name past the publicly accessible sex offenders list, which of course is imperfect, and not useful to filter out rethugs.

But it is such a taboo to ask someone's legal name that unless someone's politics are obvious, a venue, club, or recurring event is risking a lot to decline admittance to even a known rethug. If the trumper wants to threaten a lawsuit, discovery could mean every member's identity being turned over -- thus risking jobs and sometimes custody of children.

On an individual level, the whisper network (and the online version that rhymes with get life) can accomplish a lot. But a "disgruntled insider" who wants to raise a stink holds nearly all the cards, as their orange turdly leader likes to brag.

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I hope they continue to destroy themselves Shellback Squid Saturday #1
Yes! I have zero empathy wolfie001 Yesterday #32
I can't even wrap my head around the mental gymnastics needed in order to be a gay Republican in fucking 2026. Karasu Saturday #2
You got that right!! bluestarone Saturday #3
It's almost an oxymoron. greatauntoftriplets Saturday #4
there was a vid here a couple wks ago- rick wilson & stuart stevens. according to them, there's a ton of them. mopinko Saturday #9
Statistically, there are definitely many CLOSETED gay Republicans, sure (most of whom will stay that way), but Karasu Saturday #12
" ...because they're billionaires and therefore all but untouchable..." OldBaldy1701E Yesterday #36
The closeted ones, yeah. yardwork Saturday #19
a former friend of mine is a bisexual republican moonshinegnomie Saturday #16
Neither do I. I would certainly hope that he's deeply unpopular in the kink community, because the people I know Karasu Saturday #18
An obstacle, at least in the communities I know TommyT139 Saturday #20
There are a lot of people that know both moonshinegnomie Saturday #21
I'm aware of most of what you said, but you raised a great point with the "unless his politics were obvious" statement. Karasu Saturday #22
I agree - most seem to be proud of it TommyT139 Saturday #23
Because they're fucking racist, probably! LuvLoogie Saturday #27
"I've lived in Wyoming my whole life..." oasis Saturday #5
So did Matthew Shepard Gaytano70 Saturday #11
Yup lonely bird Saturday #25
In 1933 many Jews had lived in Germany their whole lives too. MrsCheaplaugh Yesterday #37
BWAHAHAHA!!! sfdennis1 Saturday #6
"Openly gay Republican" DavidDvorkin Saturday #7
Hmmmm.....a nice get rich scheme purr-rat beauty Saturday #8
You don't choose your sexual orientation, but you do choose your rank, stupid politics. Gaytano70 Saturday #10
And this is, like....a surprise to him?! electric_blue68 Saturday #13
"this kind of politics is beneath... the Republican Party" sarisataka Saturday #14
Yeah, that part is...something. There clearly isn't ANY politics beneath the Republican Party, or we wouldn't be at Karasu Saturday #17
Did he speak up just as strongly for Pete and Chastain? No? Then, sit back down til you have slightlv Saturday #15
The poor Cali Lady shopkeeper that was killed because she had a Pride Flag in her shop window wolfie001 Yesterday #35
It's obviously not beneath the state or the party Renew Deal Saturday #24
"this kind of politics is ... beneath the Republican Party," area51 Saturday #26
Given the "Party's" Recent Performance and Actions, Most of the Pedophile Claims Are Projection The Roux Comes First Yesterday #28
Yeah, if the Republicans had any sense, they would drop this "everyone we hate is a groomer" BS yesterday given Karasu Yesterday #29
He's gay & (R)? He's an idiot & Irony Deficient. n/t aggiesal Yesterday #30
Irony deficient! wolfie001 Yesterday #34
Stuart Stevens and Rick Wilson... RetiredParatrooper Yesterday #31
I'm convinced it's a kink wolfie001 Yesterday #33
Good. I'm glad. Fuck you, Reid. Oneironaut 20 hrs ago #38
As a gay man myself Chi67 14 hrs ago #39
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