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Morbius

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70. I wish there was something I could offer that would make this easier for you.

Fri Oct 10, 2025, 09:41 PM

Oct 10

There isn't. I think it helps at times like this to remember you are not alone, and it's sometimes okay to lean on other people. Or let them lean on you. That doesn't make it easier but I think it should help you cope.

Best wishes and sincere condolences; Morbius.

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Well....my brother died today. [View all] underpants Oct 10 OP

Sad news, but great memorial song. marble falls Oct 10 #1

Chinacat. underpants Oct 10 #44

I am so sorry for your loss. BlueKota Oct 10 #2

Deepest condolences on your loss. AltairIV Oct 10 #3

I'm sorry to hear that. It's nice that you got along with him. mahatmakanejeeves Oct 10 #4

I'm so sorry, underpants. LuckyCharms Oct 10 #5

Oh, I hate this for you, for anyone. babylonsister Oct 10 #6

Condolences to you UP. Irish_Dem Oct 10 #7

He will live on in your memories. surfered Oct 10 #8

Very sorry for the loss of your brother, underpants Grim Chieftain Oct 10 #9

Such a loss for you. Hold on to those memories. democrank Oct 10 #10

Thank you for sharing your/his story. yellow dahlia Oct 10 #11

I am so sorry for your loss. sheshe2 Oct 10 #12

My deepest condolences for your loss.🧡 58Sunliner Oct 10 #13

So sorry bamagal62 Oct 10 #14

Deepest Condolences, dear Underpants /nt dickthegrouch Oct 10 #15

I'm so sorry for your loss. sinkingfeeling Oct 10 #16

Thank you for celebrating his amazing life Underpants JMCKUSICK Oct 10 #17

Deepest condolences SheltieLover Oct 10 #18

Sorry to hear. 2naSalit Oct 10 #19

I'm so sorry for your loss, underpants. MIButterfly Oct 10 #20

I'm so sorry for your loss. mountain grammy Oct 10 #21

Sorry for you loss and thanks for sharing those beautiful memories. n/t marked50 Oct 10 #22

Your love for him shines through these memories, ancianita Oct 10 #23

Ugh, sorry for your loss hibbing Oct 10 #24

I am so sorry. murielm99 Oct 10 #25

Sending heartfelt sympathy to you BumRushDaShow Oct 10 #26

Next time I order a pie, True Dough Oct 10 #27

Sorry to hear. Sailingdiver Oct 10 #28

Sorry for your profound loss. FalloutShelter Oct 10 #29

He sounds really amazing! herding cats Oct 10 #30

Very sorry to hear this. Condolences on your loss nt spooky3 Oct 10 #31

Sorry for your loss orangecrush Oct 10 #32

Sincere condolences Picaro Oct 10 #33

I'm so sorry underpants. Diamond_Dog Oct 10 #34

As an only child, all my life, I have wished for a sibling. tavernier Oct 10 #35

I'm so sorry for your loss. Hard to lose a sibling. n/t PatrickforB Oct 10 #36

So sorry montanacowboy Oct 10 #37

Oh, no!!!!! Sad for you..... Karadeniz Oct 10 #38

I'm so sorry. Chemical Bill Oct 10 #39

What a loss! Maybe we danced together. mahina Oct 10 #40

❤️ 🎶 underpants Oct 10 #43

I'm sorry for your loss Marthe48 Oct 10 #41

Sweet memories Alice Kramden Oct 10 #42

I am so sorry for your loss! CousinIT Oct 10 #45

I'm very sorry for your loss. That was a very sweet remembrance. brer cat Oct 10 #46

I hope those memories will continue to comfort you as you Ilsa Oct 10 #47

So sorry for your loss. Sogo Oct 10 #48

Oh underpants, I'm so sorry for your loss. greatauntoftriplets Oct 10 #49

Condolences Duncanpup Oct 10 #50

Condolences. paleotn Oct 10 #51

I am sorry. Gore1FL Oct 10 #52

Sorry for your loss. Nt BootinUp Oct 10 #53

We're sorry Lemon Lyman Oct 10 #54

I'm so sorry. Losing someone like your brother is such a blow. no_hypocrisy Oct 10 #55

Oh, no! I'm so sorry for your loss. fierywoman Oct 10 #56

so very sorry mokeyz Oct 10 #57

To fond memories... they enrich us and keep us smiling through the hardship. Ellipsis Oct 10 #58

So sorry you lost your brother Hey Joe Oct 10 #59

So sorry for your loss UP AZJonnie Oct 10 #60

My condolences on the loss of your brother. AllyCat Oct 10 #61

Oh underpants, so so sorry you lost your big brother. Reading your description and memories of him brings an image of a KitFox Oct 10 #62

Condolences to you. Dyedinthewoolliberal Oct 10 #63

Sending you and all who loved Jake kind thoughts and may your memories remain vivid. ❤️ MLAA Oct 10 #64

Oh, God, I'm so sorry. It sounds like you were very close. Those are great memories of him, and he highplainsdem Oct 10 #65

I'm so sorry for your loss. pdxflyboy Oct 10 #66

Wonderful tribute to your brother. SleeplessinSoCal Oct 10 #67

🪽 mercuryblues Oct 10 #68

Strength and comfort to you and his close ones. quaint Oct 10 #69

I wish there was something I could offer that would make this easier for you. Morbius Oct 10 #70

So sorry for your loss sdfernando Oct 10 #71

.... chowder66 Oct 10 #72

I am so sorry. MuseRider Oct 10 #73

Ah Big Hug to ya. Eko Oct 10 #74

Thanks. I didn't get that was Neil for a bit. underpants Oct 10 #106

I'm sorry for the loss of your big brother. Solly Mack Oct 10 #75

I'm so sorry for your loss. Glass raised, Alice B. Oct 10 #76

Very sorry for your loss. IcyPeas Oct 10 #77

A big loss JohnnyLib2 Oct 10 #78

I'm so sorry for your loss, underpants. BComplex Oct 10 #79

I am so sorry for your loss irisblue Oct 10 #80

I am so sorry. He sounds like a wonderful person. Peace and strength to you 'pants. LoisB Oct 10 #81

Sorry. sorry. underpants. May the memories of your brother bring you good memories to you and your family debm55 Oct 10 #82

Thank you for sharing underpants Uncle Joe Oct 10 #83

May his memory be a blessing. Thank you EllieBC Oct 10 #84

so very sorry Skittles Oct 10 #85

I'm so very sorry for your loss. yardwork Oct 10 #86

I'm so sorry... CaptainTruth Oct 10 #87

I'm so sorry for your loss. It sounds like you two had wonderful adventures together. nt Phoenix61 Oct 10 #88

Sorry for your loss... essaynnc Oct 10 #89

Sorry for your loss. JBTaurus83 Oct 10 #90

I'm sorry, Underpants Bayard Oct 10 #91

My deepest condolences LA Blue Bengal Oct 10 #92

Condolences to you DaBronx Oct 10 #93

Sincere condolences on your loss underpants Docreed2003 Oct 10 #94

I am sorry for the loss of your brother. hamsterjill Oct 10 #95

I am so sorry that you lost your brother. choie Oct 10 #96

May his aura be scarlet begonias BaronChocula Oct 10 #97

nod underpants Oct 11 #107

....... marmar Oct 10 #98

I'm so sorry for your loss. area51 Oct 10 #99

I'm very sorry. mzmolly Oct 10 #100

You have my sincerest condolences... sendin you virtual hugs. InAbLuEsTaTe Oct 10 #101

What a loss KT2000 Oct 10 #102

I'm sorry for your loss. Grumpy Old Guy Oct 10 #103

... UTUSN Oct 10 #104

Peace to you and those who loved him lonely bird Oct 10 #105

Sounds like quite a guy. summer_in_TX Oct 11 #108

My deepest condolences to you and your family. Will be thinking of you. HeartsCanHope Oct 11 #109

I'm so sorry for your loss -- sounds like you had good memories to cherish Hekate Oct 11 #110

Sounds like a great guy to hang with. Figarosmom Oct 11 #111

Im sorry 😞 BlueWaveNeverEnd Oct 11 #112

I'm sorry JoseBalow Oct 11 #113

🫶🏽🕯️💐 blm Oct 11 #114

That is rough; i am sorry for your loss peacebuzzard Oct 11 #115

I would be in a state of shock right now. BigmanPigman Oct 11 #116

He sounds like a wonderful brother and man. Please accept my condolences. NNadir Oct 11 #117

Condolences underpants gademocrat7 Oct 11 #118

gentle hug🫂 mwmisses4289 Oct 11 #119

I am sorry. OldBaldy1701E Oct 11 #120

In Celebration of Jake ❤ Donkees Oct 11 #121

So sorry 🙏🙏 TommieMommy Oct 11 #122

I'm so sorry Danmel Oct 11 #123

I'm so sorry. barbtries Oct 11 #124

So sorry for the loss of your brother. 70sEraVet Oct 11 #125

I am so sorry for your loss, dear underpants Wicked Blue Oct 11 #126

I am sorry for your loss, underpants. Clouds Passing Oct 11 #127

I'm sorry you are going through this heartache. Emile Oct 11 #128

🫂🫂🫂🫂 MayReasonRule Oct 11 #129

Deepest sympathy to you and yours underpants malaise Oct 11 #130

So sorry for your loss, but you know he'll always be with you in heart and soul. Fla Dem Oct 11 #131

Condolences, underpants peggysue2 Oct 11 #132

You and your brother shared a truly beautiful long strange trip. Condolences flashman13 Oct 11 #133

I am sorry for your loss LetMyPeopleVote Oct 11 #134

Condolences on your loss. Mad_Dem_X Oct 11 #135

May his memory be a blessing! Would have loved to have known him. GoneOffShore Oct 11 #136

I am so sorry for the loss of your brother. pandr32 Oct 11 #137

My condolences to you underpants Faux pas Oct 11 #138

((🤍)) My sincere condolences Deuxcents Oct 11 #139

I'm so sorry 💙 swimboy Oct 11 #140

My condolences for your loss... kentuck Oct 11 #141

........ turbinetree Oct 11 #142

I'm so sorry cate94 Oct 11 #143

So sorry for your loss IbogaProject Oct 11 #144

... littlemissmartypants Oct 11 #145

So sorry for your loss. red dog 1 Oct 11 #146

You have my deep condolences, Under. Celerity Oct 11 #147

Excruciating. luvallpeeps Oct 11 #148

... cliffside Oct 11 #149

Dang! Very sorry to hear this. electric_blue68 Oct 11 #150

I'm so sorry! Ocelot II Oct 11 #151

I might have met him momentarily at some show -CT to ME.. OAITW r.2.0 Oct 11 #152

My condolences on your loss underpants Niagara Oct 12 #153

For your brother, my friend. OAITW r.2.0 Monday #154

My deep condolences, underpants. BobTheSubgenius Tuesday #155